
Understand What Creates Pressure
There are probably several people and situations that add pressure to you. It is important you are honest with yourself. Then you create a plan how to deal with these factors effectively; these are your coping strategies.
Remember that a good sense of humor will go a long way in helping you relax.
Pressure Factor:
[thinking before a match] My dad will be mad and critique me if I make mistakes or lose.
Coping Strategy:
I don't care what he says to me. I wrestle for myself. I'll listen to him and take what I can from his talk but I won't take it personally. I'm not going to wrestle this match in fear of hearing it after. (laughing to myself) he just doesn't get it.
You will identify 3 factors (situations or people) that add pressure to you and coping strategies (how you will effectively handle the situation).
Think: parents, coaches, teammates, community, environment, & self. Be specific.
Anytime you find a situation, person, or circumstance that adds pressure, return to this exercise and do the same analysis.
| Pressure Factor | Coping Strategy |
|---|---|
[ Factor #1 - e.g., Parent expectations, coach reactions, teammates watching, etc. ] | [ How you'll handle it - specific thoughts and actions ] |
[ Factor #2 ] | [ Coping strategy #2 ] |
[ Factor #3 ] | [ Coping strategy #3 ] |
[ Factor #4 - Optional ] | [ Coping strategy #4 - Optional ] |
Pressure is inevitable in competition. By identifying your pressure factors and creating specific coping strategies, you transform pressure from something that controls you into something you control. Remember: humor and perspective are your best allies!
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